Sheila Sim was seven when her brother, Cedear, got diagnosed with leukaemia. For the next two years, hospital visits became a big part of Sheila’s life without her fully grasping why. “I was too young to understand what cancer was. I don't think that the reality of him being sick settled in when I was at that age,” she recalled. Cedear passed away when Sheila was nine, but the reality of his absence didn’t hit until her mid-20s. “I realised that my life would be completely different if I had my